Sister

To my Dear & Loving Sister…

People say if you want to see heaven on Earth its there underneath the feet of your Parents. That’s very true and a universal fact is that this heaven is called because of women. A woman from start of her birth till the end possesses so many different roles that even a man salutes for her. There are so many things that describes the greatness of woman and the ultimate role that is put I don’t say next to but beside GOD is the mother. After that the best ever role that she portray is of sister. Sister a very common term but gives so much to others that even a brother cant thought of it. A sister can be your best friend in times of need, its very easy to discuss your problems with her than your parents, friends and brothers. She remembers all the small small things to lighten your moments. She can be the source for your inspiration and can give you the best of the advice like your parents. She is the one that takes charge to bear responsibilities of family, no matter the age, but always committed to give 100%. She can be as loving and caring as a mother, honest as a friend, responsible as a brother. She can bring smile on others, without her there is no significance of brother. A brother has so many things for a sister and if a sister gives a percent of happiness, a brother wants to return that happiness a hundredth fold. Without her there is no significance of Rakshabandhan where every brother promises to protect her throughout the life and committed to give all the happiness in life. Today I pray to GOD to give me strength to bear this responsibility so that I can atleast try to give my sister of what she deserves in life. I want her to demand things from me because this is what a brother is for. I want her to share the things as we brothers do, if she wont share her happiness, its fine with us, but never ever forget to share any problems with us. We pray not to get any problems in life and that entire if comes should pass from us so that we can convert that sadness into there happiness. I wish her luck in life and remember one thing…
It’s a brother’s duty to protect her sister, and it’s a sister’s duty to ask this from his brother.

LIVE YOUR DREAMS…

LIVE YOUR DREAMS…

Dreams… an essential part of life and without that I guess no one can imagine the purpose of his/her existence in this world. Everyone has a dream and its only few that can live upto it and crosses all the barriers and hardships in life in order to achieve that. I am not talking about the dreams that span over a long period and in order to achieve that a part of your life is involved. These are definitely the ultimate and sole for living a better life and achieving that itself have a feeling of self confidence and give a peace of mind. I often heard people say that morning dreams are always going to be true; if it’s bad then they say dreams are just a chemical reaction in mind and have no reality. One more thing I keep on thinking as how and what is the significance of dreams, how can a picture builds in our mind when we are actually not aware of but knows what is happening around. Well that is a very broad topic and does have scientific reasoning and I don’t know anything about that. The thing what I am writing is just what I feel about the dreams that you have seen and want to achieve. I am having a lot of dreams in life, some I achieved, and many are still pending and trying to achieve that as soon as I can. This is my story but the lesson is general to all and anyone who finds a single point worth nothing, the best I can expect from this story. There are 2 point in this are you living for the dreams that is solely for you or you are living for a dream that is for others. The first one is simple I say as compared to the later as living for your dream is kind of a selfish way to approach in life. I have used that selfish word in a very harsh manner but what I meant is that if your dreams don’t include your near and dear ones then you are selfish. But if you have a dream that includes the happiness of your close ones and if you are able to make them happy of whatever you have achieved then its something to be proud of. The best example I can give here is your parents, proud on you when you achieve something, even though they might not get any benefit out of that but they always show there generous nature towards there children. To tell you the story of a person who is born in a middle class family and there parents had struggle a lot in order to ensure that he gets all the benefits in life and never ever he can complain about. He was given such a good teaching that whenever he saws a friend of him much richer than him, he never used to get fascinated and influenced, from the beginning itself that boy know that whatever there parents are doing, its more than what he deserves, hence a lesson here is that whatever is being given to you by your parents don’t take this for granted and think that its there responsibility and they are not doing anything extra providing you with food, shelter and education. Consider the kids at the orphanage living in this world without parents and cant demand the things that you ask for your parents without even realising how they are gonna get that for you. Hence from the start he knew that he need to improve the standard of living not for himself but for his family and provide them all the comforts that they are worth for and have lost in those years trying to provide him with the best. When he was in school he make up his mind not to get involved with the fancy friends that are good for nothing and try to be away with things that costs much. He tried to live a simple life concentrating on his studies as his mother always tells him that for the people like us it’s only the knowledge that can bring you up, and that is very true. Knowledge is everything whatever you do is the sense from the knowledge that you have achieved, a person with a better knowledge can use his brain in much more constructing rather than an idle mind doing nothing and spoiling first him and then society. Finally his hard work get him in a college that he was looking for and there one of his dream got fulfilled, it was a great moment as it’s a new turn in life and he needs to be much more cautious and watchful as you might get involved in all those bad stuffs as you feel to think that you are old enough to take your own decisions. It’s true that you are old enough to take decisions, but it should not be on ones cause. The four years went in flash where the ups and downs comes in his life, some very painful moment which hurt him worse and from which he is never recovered, but his dream to get a job was on priority as now it’s the time for him to show and take the responsibility on his shoulder to relieve from his parents. After his college he struggled to get a job for a couple of months and those were the days of pain for him as the tension was growing and the pressure building up and the worst that was making him feel is the faith of his parents. But we say that all will happen Good for Good people, finally he got a job and from there another turn in his life and till today he is trying to give whatever he can to his family. Well that’s just a one example of an ordinary guy doing nothing extraordinary but living for others dream. You can find many in this World much more dedicated and strong, breaking the boundaries to make others happy. For such people I hats off and is the source of inspiration. Dreams are very important; it gives you or tries to make you feel what you can achieve and what you deserve in life. A person like him first lives the dream of his parents and relatives, then to his life partner and then to there children’s. I wont say that you should not live your dreams but there is always a great relief if you achieve something for others, I am trying to do the same as I don’t have anything for me and whatever i will achieve I know it will make me lift high in my spirit and confidence. But the thing to learn is that dreams are there to please you, your family, and your friends, your near and dear ones. It should not get water in someone’s eyes as living a dream on a painful heart will never ever let you be happy for long. Have blessings of your parent’s give them the best in first place, then think of yourself. I still have a lot to achieve and I am sure one day I will achieve as I have confidence in myself and to the most my parents have faith on me and atleast the GOD wont get the prayers empty for any parent.

Live your Dreams, that’s what no one can steal from you…
Respect your Parents, that’s what you should do till you are alive…
And give Love to all, that’s what you are here for…

All the Best…