Kya achche Din the woh jab main khoob aish kiya karta tha 10-12 ghante office mein rehta kaam 5-6 ghante ka baaki timepass kiya karta ;-)
jaane kaha gaye woh Din... kitne maze kiya karte the, Chennai ki us Campus mein......
Wahi subah 6 baje office aana aur shaam ko 6 baje ghar jaana,
woh bus ki bheed mein khade rehna, woh Tallu logo ke sir se chameli ke tel ki smell aana,
woh barish ki ek boond ko tarasna, woh ped ki thodi cho ke liye dekhna,
woh hamesha shower ke neeche khade hokar thande paani ka anand lena,
woh paseene se body ka hamesha nahate rehna,
woh weekend pe bahar nikalne se ghabrana, khana order kar le yehi sochna aur phone ghumana,
woh baarish ko dekhkar chat par jaana aur jab tak thand na lage paani mein bheegte rehna,
woh barsaat ho to sadak par paani bhar jaana, paani ke saath drainage ka paani mil ke mast smell aana,
woh office mein roz dhoom machana, kaam ke saath masti bhi karna,
woh manager ko dekh achche bachche ban jaana aur chat window minimise kar dena,
woh galat time pe dosto ka IM pe ping karna aur manager ka tirchi nazar se humko dekhna,
woh sochna ki aaj kiske saath chat ki jaaye aur dekhte dekhte dheer saari IM window khol lena,
woh office ke AC ke maze lena aur kehna 'hum to aise hi aish karte hai'
woh ghar jakar dosto ko din ka haal sunana aur kuch baatein masale lagakar batana,
woh khana banane ki koshish karna, achcha na bane tab doosro ko zyada khilana,
woh hafte mein ek baar ghar phone karna aur girlfriend ko roz sms aur call karna,
woh dosto se mahine ke pehle hi keh dena ki jeb kadki hai, wahi apne liye mast shopping karna,
woh har hafte movies dekhne jaana aur weekend raat ko dvd's lana, kabhi comedy to kabhi adult,
woh alag hi independent life ka maza lena, na koi rokne wala na koi tokne wala,
phir bhi in sab ke baad apne Dil mein ghar walo, dosto ke liye pyaar, Managers ke liye galiyan,
Sochte hai bahut kuch karna life mein aur planning karna,
But jo life hum jee rahe hai us par pehle thanks karna aur sab ke saath mil kar chalna...
Sabko yehi hai advice meri, sada khush raho yeh dua hai meri,
ho tum Chennai mein ya Delhi, sab bhai bhai hai to khushiya bante raho aur sada muskurate raho :-)
Thursday, 27 September 2007
Wednesday, 5 September 2007
Which Love is Greater?
Which Love is Greater?
Aaditya was standing at the bus stop waiting for the bus to reach for work. He was a bit frustrated and annoyed because of the delay in bus also this morning his bike got punctured and that is the reason why he has to catch the state transport bus. Aaditya aged 26 working as a salesman at the Raymond showroom in Sahara Mall at Gurgaon. Born at a middle class family with not much to enjoy in life because of the financial reasons and two younger siblings. His father is a government employee working in Railways and mother is a teacher and also does tuitions at home. After completing his graduation, he never dreamt of going for higher studies as the next aim for him is to support his family and let his other two siblings to achieve what they want in life. He is very sincere and honest person, very straightforward in terms of life and work. In his two years of job at Raymond’s he not only got a hike thrice, but also develop a good relationship between the fellow staffs and also with the customers. Aaditya was good looking with an average built and a nice smile. Even though he did his graduation in a mediocre college, his fluency in English is very good and also a very good accent to talk both in English and Hindi.
He was still waiting for the bus and the wrist watch on his hand shows 08:20 AM, suddenly a metallic gray Activa passed from the bus stop and halted suddenly. He could clearly see the face of the girl riding that as it was her back. She parked the Activa near the side of the road and just turned to saw her side face a bit tensed and a sense that what will happen next. For a minute or two he could not off his sight from her as she tried to kick the Activa again and again. Their came a thrust from the back and he realised that the bus has finally arrived and the people are rushing to get in. For a moment he thought to get in the bus, but then a voice came from his heart and he just dived back on the bus stop and saw the bus went pass. The girl was still struggling with the bike and now she took out his cell phone and started dialling the number. When she is finished, Aaditya was standing near to her and asked ‘May I help you?’ the girl replied in a bit annoying way ‘No, thanks I can manage’. Aaditya still standing their thinking ‘what she is thinking of me? Am I not look decent in that clothes?...’. He told again ‘excuse me please, their is a repair shop some 200 meters across the road, if you don’t mind I can accompany you to that shop and then you will get your Activa repaired’. The girl thought for a moment and said ‘Ok’. She tried to get hold of Activa, but Aaditya told ‘Let me drag that bike, it’s nearby only’. The first time he saw a feeling of respect for him. Both of them crossed the road and Aaditya was trying to walk slowly as he doesn’t want this moment to get over soon. So many things was going in his mind and he was thinking more and more about what will happen next. The girl that was walking alongside is in her early twenties, fair, long hair that she plugged with pins not to look too long. Aaditya thought that she will look more beautiful in open hairs. She was just a bit smaller than Aaditya and had a little black spot (til as we call in Hindi) on her right below cheek. She was wearing a grey kurta with zari work on it and blue jeans with a bad on her shoulder. She was not wearing high heels and that Aaditya guessed that she belongs to a very decent family. Suddenly he was on alert with a truck horn and saw to his left and found they have just reached the mechanic shop. He put the Activa on stand and went in to get a person to look into. He went to her and said ‘Well their you are…’. The girl thanked him and asked him what you do. Aaditya replied, ‘I worked as a salesman in Raymond shop at Sahara Mall’. He then saw his watch, it was 8:55 AM and that’s the first time after seeing her he realised that he is late for work. He told bye to her and said ‘will catch you later’ and went like an athlete.
When he came to work, he realised that he didn’t even asked her contact number, then he thought he didn’t even ask where she lives and what she does? Then realised he didn’t even ask her name also? All this thought made him feel sad and he was not sure whether he can be able to meet her again or not. The days went on and for a week he went by bus at the same stop the same time in a hope to see her again, but no luck. He thought ‘hat had happened to him, is he in love. Then he just discard the idea as it can’t be as I just saw her and was with her for 20 minutes. It can’t be love just that I haven’t saw a girl which made me feel like that’. Well he tried to forget her thought but some or the other during the course of the day that bright face gets infront of him.
It was Saturday evening and Aadi was busy in handling the customers, suddenly the door opened and he felt a fresh fragrance into the shop, he asked his fellow to look after the customer and went to see the door. He was dumb shock seeing that girl along with a man in his late fifties. He guessed that its her father. She saw Aadi and come closer and said ‘Hello, do you remember me?’. Aadi was still seeing her without a flick in his eyes. She again told ‘Hellloooooo?, the fellow called in a loud voice ‘Aadiiiii’. Aadi told yes, then the girl said ‘Ohh so your name is Aadi, nice name’. Aadi couldn’t suppress his smile and said ‘My name is Aaditya, but people call me Aadi as short n sweet’. He then told ‘How can I help you?’, she told I need a suite piece for my father for a special occasion. He had a strange look on her and asked in a low tone ‘What special occasion?’. The girl replied, ‘my parent’s 25th marriage anniversary’. It was a delight on Aadi’s face and he told sure this way please. Being a good and cheerful person, Aadi was a very good salesman. He understands the customer requirements and then gets along to show the best that suits them. It took 10 minutes for Aadi to get the best deal for her father and finally they choose the colour of the suit piece. Aadi then asked ‘I am sorry I haven’t asked your name that day as I was getting late to work’. She told ‘No problem I understand, by the way my name is Aditi’. Aadi thought ‘Aadi’s Aditi’ and laughed. She asked, ‘whats their to laugh?’. Aadi told nothing it’s just that both of our names start with ‘A’. She was about to say yes then Aadi asked, ‘what you do?’. Aditi replies ‘I work in systematic consulting as a financial planner’. Aadi asked in surprise and what that means? She told ‘I get people to plan how to save more money so that you can pay less for tax’. Aadi to make the talk easy, well then you should do one for meJ. She relied ‘sure why not’ with a return smile. It was again going to end and her father called to leave, suddenly Aaditya asked ‘Will you join for a coffee whenever you are free, I can give you my cell number’. He then said again ‘Sorry if I said something wrong’. She looked in surprise and said, ‘okay’…. Aadi can’t believe what a jackpot he got.
The day went fine and he was looking more energetic then ever. He was not sure what happened to him but everything looks pleasant to him and he can see that improvement in his work and with the fellow staff. One of the staff member asked him ‘Hey Aadi you look very happy now a days, whats the matter?’ and Aaditya replied, nothing much just making the most from the day. He was really a cheerful person and most of other people working in different shops know him. But after a week he didn’t hear anything from her. He went to nearby internet café and search for systematic consulting to get the number to call her in office. Then he realised that it would be not nice to just hurry things off. On Saturday evening two weeks later, Aditi came to the shop and went straight to Aadi and told ‘Hi, surprise’. Aadi looked at her in real surprise and told ‘I didn’t expect you. I thought that I told something wrong that day’. She told, ‘nothing like that you told because you don’t wanna miss any chance right’ she smiled. Aadi then asked ‘any specific reason to come here?’ She told ‘yes, you asked me call for coffee, on the first floor their is a good restaurant, I come once every month to that. Aadi thought, why I haven’t seen her atleast once, then realised that I am always here on this floor and in the shop. He then told okay and they both went to that café. She ordered coffee, pastry and Aadi took tea. They had a very nice conversation and that was the start of the so called friendship.
Aadi and Aditi used to meet once in 15 days to the same coffee shop and talk for sometime, also they use to call each other in a day or two and just talk casually with all the jokes. He used to tell about the customers he handled today and what sort of creatures comes into the mall and his shop. She also explains him about the financial stuffs; he knew he won’t understand much but was eager to listen as she had a very sweet voice. It was more than two months that they have known to each other after the first coffee, but they have been so much influenced that nobody can guess that they know each other for a very short time. They match in the taste of movies, music, personalities, current affairs, sports, actors, actress, etc. some of the choices Aadi made in line with her so as to show that we are so much the same in all respect and that we are good buddies when together. Well the intension was not bad, but he doesn’t want to make her different in any respect. He was definitely in love with her as love teaches to be with your partner all the times, respects the others feeling and don’t get the other to change for your cause. People say love is blind, but I say love opens the eye with all dirt and you find yourself much more pure and caring than without love. Love is a bridge that allows people of different mind follow the same path, love is one that will allow you to think the good of your partner without even thinking the result that can be on your cost. Love is when you don’t share but give your happiness to your partner and take the sadness from their life. All these thoughts were coming on Aadi’s mind and then he decided to tell the same to Aditi.
The next day he told about Aditi to his parents and they were delighted to hear that and gave their approval on this offer. He then called Aditi to meet her and she told that she will meet her on Saturday evening as usual. Also she told that she had an important thing to talk to him. He was delighted and thought is that the same she wants to tell me? It was Tuesday and he can’t wait for Saturday and those 3 days were like years for him. Finally she arrived at the shop on Saturday evening and they both went to have their same order. She was looking a bit tensed. Aadi hold her hand and asked ‘Whats the matter Dear? You are not looking good?’
She replied ‘Aadi I need your help in one matter and only you can help me’. Aadi’s facial expression changed and he asked in a serious tone, ‘Is everything alright?’. She replied, ‘I want to tell you one thing as you are my dearest friend among all and only you can understand and help me’. Aadi was getting worried and asked ‘Please tell me what happened?’. She told ‘Aadi I love one guy in my office, his name is Arjun and he is in my team and we get into this for 6 months until I realised I like him’. Aadi can’t believe his ears and thought again ‘A’. He asked ‘Are you serious?’ and does that guy love you?’. Aditi replied ‘I told him that, and he told me that I need to get my parents for this offer and that he don’t want any problem. He is not having any issues with this?’. Aadi then asked ‘But does he loves you?’ She told ‘Of course he does else why he will ask me to contact his parents’. Aadi thought to convince her that he doesn’t loves you, suddenly a sound came from behind. Aadi looked behind and saw a tall handsome man in a three piece grey suit standing. Aditi stood up and called, ‘come Arjun, let me introduced you to Aaditya, my best friend’. Aaditya managed a smile and said ‘Hello Arjun, how do you do?’. Arjun replied ‘I am doing well, how about you?’
Aaditya didn’t reply to the question.
Aaditya thought to get up and go somewhere but seeing Aditi’s face forced him to sit. Aditi then told ‘Aadi I love him and I want this relationship to go on, would you please ask my parents to have this offer to Arjun’s parents? I know that my parents won’t oppose as they know you very well and believe you, and if you take this offer to them they will surely think’
Aadi said, ‘Okay, and left’
That night Aadi couldn’t sleep and thought ‘have I thought it wrong? It was just the friendship or I am in love with her? If I love her, why I haven’t done anything to get her back? Why I just let her go?’ Then he realised that its not important to whom you love, but to be happy to see that the one you love is happy. She can find happiness with you also or without you. If she considered you as a friend and you considered as something else, its your fault. But people say that love is blind, at this point that statement gets justified and the only thing to remember is that if you love someone, its your duty to be happy in his/her happiness and the biggest thing to remember is that love never demands anything, but always give something in what so ever the situation is. Aadi was happy to be in love with a person that respects her not the way he liked but as a true friend.
We all can get in such situations where we don’t understand what is good for us and what needs to be done. The best thing to do is to have faith within as true love will definitely find you one day and their is no harm in giving love to the ones that are close to you. Love is everywhere, it’s just that you need to understand and give the same to others. Life is short and hence a search for a real love will definitely lead to a person that you always dreamt of to have your entire life. May GOD Bless All!!!
Aaditya was standing at the bus stop waiting for the bus to reach for work. He was a bit frustrated and annoyed because of the delay in bus also this morning his bike got punctured and that is the reason why he has to catch the state transport bus. Aaditya aged 26 working as a salesman at the Raymond showroom in Sahara Mall at Gurgaon. Born at a middle class family with not much to enjoy in life because of the financial reasons and two younger siblings. His father is a government employee working in Railways and mother is a teacher and also does tuitions at home. After completing his graduation, he never dreamt of going for higher studies as the next aim for him is to support his family and let his other two siblings to achieve what they want in life. He is very sincere and honest person, very straightforward in terms of life and work. In his two years of job at Raymond’s he not only got a hike thrice, but also develop a good relationship between the fellow staffs and also with the customers. Aaditya was good looking with an average built and a nice smile. Even though he did his graduation in a mediocre college, his fluency in English is very good and also a very good accent to talk both in English and Hindi.
He was still waiting for the bus and the wrist watch on his hand shows 08:20 AM, suddenly a metallic gray Activa passed from the bus stop and halted suddenly. He could clearly see the face of the girl riding that as it was her back. She parked the Activa near the side of the road and just turned to saw her side face a bit tensed and a sense that what will happen next. For a minute or two he could not off his sight from her as she tried to kick the Activa again and again. Their came a thrust from the back and he realised that the bus has finally arrived and the people are rushing to get in. For a moment he thought to get in the bus, but then a voice came from his heart and he just dived back on the bus stop and saw the bus went pass. The girl was still struggling with the bike and now she took out his cell phone and started dialling the number. When she is finished, Aaditya was standing near to her and asked ‘May I help you?’ the girl replied in a bit annoying way ‘No, thanks I can manage’. Aaditya still standing their thinking ‘what she is thinking of me? Am I not look decent in that clothes?...’. He told again ‘excuse me please, their is a repair shop some 200 meters across the road, if you don’t mind I can accompany you to that shop and then you will get your Activa repaired’. The girl thought for a moment and said ‘Ok’. She tried to get hold of Activa, but Aaditya told ‘Let me drag that bike, it’s nearby only’. The first time he saw a feeling of respect for him. Both of them crossed the road and Aaditya was trying to walk slowly as he doesn’t want this moment to get over soon. So many things was going in his mind and he was thinking more and more about what will happen next. The girl that was walking alongside is in her early twenties, fair, long hair that she plugged with pins not to look too long. Aaditya thought that she will look more beautiful in open hairs. She was just a bit smaller than Aaditya and had a little black spot (til as we call in Hindi) on her right below cheek. She was wearing a grey kurta with zari work on it and blue jeans with a bad on her shoulder. She was not wearing high heels and that Aaditya guessed that she belongs to a very decent family. Suddenly he was on alert with a truck horn and saw to his left and found they have just reached the mechanic shop. He put the Activa on stand and went in to get a person to look into. He went to her and said ‘Well their you are…’. The girl thanked him and asked him what you do. Aaditya replied, ‘I worked as a salesman in Raymond shop at Sahara Mall’. He then saw his watch, it was 8:55 AM and that’s the first time after seeing her he realised that he is late for work. He told bye to her and said ‘will catch you later’ and went like an athlete.
When he came to work, he realised that he didn’t even asked her contact number, then he thought he didn’t even ask where she lives and what she does? Then realised he didn’t even ask her name also? All this thought made him feel sad and he was not sure whether he can be able to meet her again or not. The days went on and for a week he went by bus at the same stop the same time in a hope to see her again, but no luck. He thought ‘hat had happened to him, is he in love. Then he just discard the idea as it can’t be as I just saw her and was with her for 20 minutes. It can’t be love just that I haven’t saw a girl which made me feel like that’. Well he tried to forget her thought but some or the other during the course of the day that bright face gets infront of him.
It was Saturday evening and Aadi was busy in handling the customers, suddenly the door opened and he felt a fresh fragrance into the shop, he asked his fellow to look after the customer and went to see the door. He was dumb shock seeing that girl along with a man in his late fifties. He guessed that its her father. She saw Aadi and come closer and said ‘Hello, do you remember me?’. Aadi was still seeing her without a flick in his eyes. She again told ‘Hellloooooo?, the fellow called in a loud voice ‘Aadiiiii’. Aadi told yes, then the girl said ‘Ohh so your name is Aadi, nice name’. Aadi couldn’t suppress his smile and said ‘My name is Aaditya, but people call me Aadi as short n sweet’. He then told ‘How can I help you?’, she told I need a suite piece for my father for a special occasion. He had a strange look on her and asked in a low tone ‘What special occasion?’. The girl replied, ‘my parent’s 25th marriage anniversary’. It was a delight on Aadi’s face and he told sure this way please. Being a good and cheerful person, Aadi was a very good salesman. He understands the customer requirements and then gets along to show the best that suits them. It took 10 minutes for Aadi to get the best deal for her father and finally they choose the colour of the suit piece. Aadi then asked ‘I am sorry I haven’t asked your name that day as I was getting late to work’. She told ‘No problem I understand, by the way my name is Aditi’. Aadi thought ‘Aadi’s Aditi’ and laughed. She asked, ‘whats their to laugh?’. Aadi told nothing it’s just that both of our names start with ‘A’. She was about to say yes then Aadi asked, ‘what you do?’. Aditi replies ‘I work in systematic consulting as a financial planner’. Aadi asked in surprise and what that means? She told ‘I get people to plan how to save more money so that you can pay less for tax’. Aadi to make the talk easy, well then you should do one for meJ. She relied ‘sure why not’ with a return smile. It was again going to end and her father called to leave, suddenly Aaditya asked ‘Will you join for a coffee whenever you are free, I can give you my cell number’. He then said again ‘Sorry if I said something wrong’. She looked in surprise and said, ‘okay’…. Aadi can’t believe what a jackpot he got.
The day went fine and he was looking more energetic then ever. He was not sure what happened to him but everything looks pleasant to him and he can see that improvement in his work and with the fellow staff. One of the staff member asked him ‘Hey Aadi you look very happy now a days, whats the matter?’ and Aaditya replied, nothing much just making the most from the day. He was really a cheerful person and most of other people working in different shops know him. But after a week he didn’t hear anything from her. He went to nearby internet café and search for systematic consulting to get the number to call her in office. Then he realised that it would be not nice to just hurry things off. On Saturday evening two weeks later, Aditi came to the shop and went straight to Aadi and told ‘Hi, surprise’. Aadi looked at her in real surprise and told ‘I didn’t expect you. I thought that I told something wrong that day’. She told, ‘nothing like that you told because you don’t wanna miss any chance right’ she smiled. Aadi then asked ‘any specific reason to come here?’ She told ‘yes, you asked me call for coffee, on the first floor their is a good restaurant, I come once every month to that. Aadi thought, why I haven’t seen her atleast once, then realised that I am always here on this floor and in the shop. He then told okay and they both went to that café. She ordered coffee, pastry and Aadi took tea. They had a very nice conversation and that was the start of the so called friendship.
Aadi and Aditi used to meet once in 15 days to the same coffee shop and talk for sometime, also they use to call each other in a day or two and just talk casually with all the jokes. He used to tell about the customers he handled today and what sort of creatures comes into the mall and his shop. She also explains him about the financial stuffs; he knew he won’t understand much but was eager to listen as she had a very sweet voice. It was more than two months that they have known to each other after the first coffee, but they have been so much influenced that nobody can guess that they know each other for a very short time. They match in the taste of movies, music, personalities, current affairs, sports, actors, actress, etc. some of the choices Aadi made in line with her so as to show that we are so much the same in all respect and that we are good buddies when together. Well the intension was not bad, but he doesn’t want to make her different in any respect. He was definitely in love with her as love teaches to be with your partner all the times, respects the others feeling and don’t get the other to change for your cause. People say love is blind, but I say love opens the eye with all dirt and you find yourself much more pure and caring than without love. Love is a bridge that allows people of different mind follow the same path, love is one that will allow you to think the good of your partner without even thinking the result that can be on your cost. Love is when you don’t share but give your happiness to your partner and take the sadness from their life. All these thoughts were coming on Aadi’s mind and then he decided to tell the same to Aditi.
The next day he told about Aditi to his parents and they were delighted to hear that and gave their approval on this offer. He then called Aditi to meet her and she told that she will meet her on Saturday evening as usual. Also she told that she had an important thing to talk to him. He was delighted and thought is that the same she wants to tell me? It was Tuesday and he can’t wait for Saturday and those 3 days were like years for him. Finally she arrived at the shop on Saturday evening and they both went to have their same order. She was looking a bit tensed. Aadi hold her hand and asked ‘Whats the matter Dear? You are not looking good?’
She replied ‘Aadi I need your help in one matter and only you can help me’. Aadi’s facial expression changed and he asked in a serious tone, ‘Is everything alright?’. She replied, ‘I want to tell you one thing as you are my dearest friend among all and only you can understand and help me’. Aadi was getting worried and asked ‘Please tell me what happened?’. She told ‘Aadi I love one guy in my office, his name is Arjun and he is in my team and we get into this for 6 months until I realised I like him’. Aadi can’t believe his ears and thought again ‘A’. He asked ‘Are you serious?’ and does that guy love you?’. Aditi replied ‘I told him that, and he told me that I need to get my parents for this offer and that he don’t want any problem. He is not having any issues with this?’. Aadi then asked ‘But does he loves you?’ She told ‘Of course he does else why he will ask me to contact his parents’. Aadi thought to convince her that he doesn’t loves you, suddenly a sound came from behind. Aadi looked behind and saw a tall handsome man in a three piece grey suit standing. Aditi stood up and called, ‘come Arjun, let me introduced you to Aaditya, my best friend’. Aaditya managed a smile and said ‘Hello Arjun, how do you do?’. Arjun replied ‘I am doing well, how about you?’
Aaditya didn’t reply to the question.
Aaditya thought to get up and go somewhere but seeing Aditi’s face forced him to sit. Aditi then told ‘Aadi I love him and I want this relationship to go on, would you please ask my parents to have this offer to Arjun’s parents? I know that my parents won’t oppose as they know you very well and believe you, and if you take this offer to them they will surely think’
Aadi said, ‘Okay, and left’
That night Aadi couldn’t sleep and thought ‘have I thought it wrong? It was just the friendship or I am in love with her? If I love her, why I haven’t done anything to get her back? Why I just let her go?’ Then he realised that its not important to whom you love, but to be happy to see that the one you love is happy. She can find happiness with you also or without you. If she considered you as a friend and you considered as something else, its your fault. But people say that love is blind, at this point that statement gets justified and the only thing to remember is that if you love someone, its your duty to be happy in his/her happiness and the biggest thing to remember is that love never demands anything, but always give something in what so ever the situation is. Aadi was happy to be in love with a person that respects her not the way he liked but as a true friend.
We all can get in such situations where we don’t understand what is good for us and what needs to be done. The best thing to do is to have faith within as true love will definitely find you one day and their is no harm in giving love to the ones that are close to you. Love is everywhere, it’s just that you need to understand and give the same to others. Life is short and hence a search for a real love will definitely lead to a person that you always dreamt of to have your entire life. May GOD Bless All!!!
Tuesday, 4 September 2007
Kuch Pal – Some Moments to Cherish
Kuch Pal – Some Moments to Cherish
This is not just a story but a reality that we have and can face in our life at anytime where you get what you have never expected. Well here I will only share some moments that will be the cause of happiness and not sadness as I feel their should be sometime where we should overcast that thing to get a smile on our face. Well today life is racing faster than time and to each one we ask they say ‘We have no time’ or ’24 hour is not enough’. I sometime feel that this is just a stupid reason to avoid some trouble I guess as the great persons in past also had the same time and they had given us what we could have never achieved in that short period. The world has changed so much during say 60 years, previously their was a much greater sense of respect than its now and all because people are so busy in their own world. This is the moment where if they get some happiness then they can remember for a long long time. I am not sure if people had heard a very famous song by Ali Hyder – ‘Puraani Jeans aur Guitaar, mohalle ki who chat (roof) aur mere yaar…’. That song really describes a very beautiful aspect of life. I will start from the school when we are quite old to understand things and try to show our smartness over others. I remember some students sits at the back and usually start their mischief at the last period in school when they all are tired of the days work. I used to sit in the centre so as to get the taste of both, people at the back used to clip in a rubber band and stick a piece of paper and just shot like a gulel (I don’t know the pronunciation in English). Then the next best thing we do is to throw chalks on each other whenever we get a free period or if their is a delay in the teacher arrival. One more form of throwing chalk we discover is to get a small piece grind it with fingers and throw on the hairs and back of the blazer. It was the best game that we all have played in school. One more thing that is done every year during Diwali month is to have a blast in the toilets. For that the gang that never comes on time comes early in the morning to fix the same in a place where no one can see and light up the candle (agarbatti) and put the lace of the bomb at the end of the candle and alert everyone not to use that toilet. Generally they used to keep that in ladies toilet to have more impact. To a surprise you see that never ever we have heard in school that because of that someone got hurt and that leads to have this activity every year. And when the bomb explodes, the person who does this have such a strange looks that you just can’t control your emotions seeing them. You always see that in a class their is a group that leads the control from the front and the reputation among teachers is not so good. But I say that they are the most creative persons and a life in the class. I remember one weirder that we do in class is to imitate voices of animals. Consider the English period is going on and teacher is explaining tenses and suddenly a cat’s voice gets in class. A pin drop silence becomes a laughter club and then using that some more voices can be heard and the look on teachers face is to be enjoyed.
During schooling, I don’t know much about girls, but you will see that if the girl is a topper in class, she will be more comfortable with fellow guys with similar intelligence. Two brilliant girls can never be great friends I bet you for thatJ. And it’s always being good to see them in the class fighting for each mark in tests and answering the maximum questions in the class. On the other hand the guys will sit behind them and try to hide so that the teacher may not let them stand to answer the question. During any cultural or sports activity, their will always be a group that wont do anything but have their so called valuable comments to the ones busy in managing things and taking part on the same.
When we go in college, we think to be smart and know everything about life. Some take this change seriously and concentrate on their goals in life, others have a view to enjoy these years and then think about life as after that no one will be escaped with the burden of responsibilities. Girls tend to be very serious during initial days and try to have an impact on the professors. Usually these girls are boring for the ones that take the life in a much lighter way and being an average student enjoys each and every moment of that life. The best thing you must have done is to give a punch line to your college or atleast have a short name that looks funnier to be called. Then you have your college song that seniors want each one to learn. For guys they have a non veg version and for girls something very stupid to laugh about and if you don’t know the song then be ready to have your chubby cheeks to get the pain. First year is always being remembered as at this period you will get to know how you are going to cope up with both the studies and enjoyment. This is the time where guys and girls tend to get in all sorts of unwanted activities like cigarette, alcohol, etc. Some say that you need to taste all this in life, but they don’t know that to taste a thing that is harmful is never ever let you taste. It will get you used to it, May God Bless All. The next best thing that people in college wait for is GT (General Tadi) a decided holiday that can vary from half day to months based on the leader decision. Haa one more thing in that is you will always find a leader in your class that will ask you to follow whatever he says. He will be the one that has contacts to all the seniors, no interest in studies and just ask someone to have its proxy. If that guy sits with you in the class for one lecture, bet you won’t able to concentrate as he will ask you so many questions during that. Even you can find a leader among girls that will encourage not going for GT and preparing the sessionals in time. Some might even go secretly and submits the assignment to professor and behaves that they haven’t even prepared and stands with the class decision. The best place to relax in college is outside the gate on stairs and you will find some or the other person sitting at all times and that place can never look deserted from morning till evening. When you get senior you either think to leave the juniors in sympathy or want to have your revenge on them. One more thing that is common is that if you have been ragged by any senior, then he will definitely help you if you require both in terms of guiding, studies, notes and doing other stuffs, I hope you understand…
Combine study is the most common term among guys as it’s not that popular among girls as two or more than two girls can’t study seriously in a single room on the same topic, not because they don’t want to study together, but you know it won’t work out. Two reasons for that, firstly girls are jealous among fellow girls as they have a tendency to prove better then others and hence they prefer to study lonely and in secret and behaves after the paper that it was not good and get 80+ marks. I have never seen any brilliant or average girl to say the truth after coming out of the examination hall. The best dialog for them is ‘Don’t know yaar jo jo pada tha, kuch nahi aaya, bas passing marks jitney aayenge’ (I don’t know what happened, whatever I studied didn’t came, I hope I will pass this paper). Combined study among guys is very common both in school and in college and it’s really helpful for the people those haven’t opened the notes all round the year. The study usually starts after 10 with a cup of tea and snacks, then opens the last year papers or term papers and first gets through all those. Actually this actually guaranteed 30 to 40 percent of repeated questions and can guarantee you to just pass with the minimum marks. Well after a serious study for a couple of hours then next thing they do is to go out for some break to a nearby hotel at the bus or train station and have a strong tea with poha (a very common and famous item for breakfast). That’s the best place where even at 3-4 in the morning all will look as fresh as ever after having that early breakfast. Their is also a tendency to get the paper out and it happened many times in my school and college. I remember two cases one happened in class 9 where my history teacher is being called by principal and she left in the middle of the period and I was sitting at the front bench and saw some notes under the book. When I dragged that I saw that was the second term paper of ours and everyone was surrounded that and looked in surprise. I was really scared and when she came back we are all at our desk and nobody said anything. I felt really guilty about myself as History was my favourite subject and also the teacher I respect most. After the class I told everyone that I m going to tell her, some agreed on my decision and many said no, but I then went to the staff room and told her everything. She was really very angry after that, but later I guess she realised my honesty, but the thing is that I was able to see on her eyes after telling this and all guilt was gone. The second case happened in class 11 where my friends got hold of English paper and they all came to me at 9 in the night to solve the grammar as I was considered to be honest to provide the correct solution. We all sat and solved the paper for 2 hours and went to Bed. I was still not convinced and continued my normal study, but the next day when we saw the paper, we all were delighted and just saw the first question and the pen started to move on the copy like a rocket and that was the first time most of them were able to finish the paper much before the allotted timeJ
Well this continues on and on, but all these moments when you realise for sure bring smile on your face. If while reading this you can imagine your wonderful past and the stuffs you did then the motive for this story is served. In the last only want to say that life is not too short, but the moments that you can enjoy without considering anything and just enjoying is too short. So what are you thinking about just remember those little moments and put that in a safe locker in your mind and whenever you feel depressed and lonely open that locker and let the smile have to pass from your charming face. All the very Best J J J
This is not just a story but a reality that we have and can face in our life at anytime where you get what you have never expected. Well here I will only share some moments that will be the cause of happiness and not sadness as I feel their should be sometime where we should overcast that thing to get a smile on our face. Well today life is racing faster than time and to each one we ask they say ‘We have no time’ or ’24 hour is not enough’. I sometime feel that this is just a stupid reason to avoid some trouble I guess as the great persons in past also had the same time and they had given us what we could have never achieved in that short period. The world has changed so much during say 60 years, previously their was a much greater sense of respect than its now and all because people are so busy in their own world. This is the moment where if they get some happiness then they can remember for a long long time. I am not sure if people had heard a very famous song by Ali Hyder – ‘Puraani Jeans aur Guitaar, mohalle ki who chat (roof) aur mere yaar…’. That song really describes a very beautiful aspect of life. I will start from the school when we are quite old to understand things and try to show our smartness over others. I remember some students sits at the back and usually start their mischief at the last period in school when they all are tired of the days work. I used to sit in the centre so as to get the taste of both, people at the back used to clip in a rubber band and stick a piece of paper and just shot like a gulel (I don’t know the pronunciation in English). Then the next best thing we do is to throw chalks on each other whenever we get a free period or if their is a delay in the teacher arrival. One more form of throwing chalk we discover is to get a small piece grind it with fingers and throw on the hairs and back of the blazer. It was the best game that we all have played in school. One more thing that is done every year during Diwali month is to have a blast in the toilets. For that the gang that never comes on time comes early in the morning to fix the same in a place where no one can see and light up the candle (agarbatti) and put the lace of the bomb at the end of the candle and alert everyone not to use that toilet. Generally they used to keep that in ladies toilet to have more impact. To a surprise you see that never ever we have heard in school that because of that someone got hurt and that leads to have this activity every year. And when the bomb explodes, the person who does this have such a strange looks that you just can’t control your emotions seeing them. You always see that in a class their is a group that leads the control from the front and the reputation among teachers is not so good. But I say that they are the most creative persons and a life in the class. I remember one weirder that we do in class is to imitate voices of animals. Consider the English period is going on and teacher is explaining tenses and suddenly a cat’s voice gets in class. A pin drop silence becomes a laughter club and then using that some more voices can be heard and the look on teachers face is to be enjoyed.
During schooling, I don’t know much about girls, but you will see that if the girl is a topper in class, she will be more comfortable with fellow guys with similar intelligence. Two brilliant girls can never be great friends I bet you for thatJ. And it’s always being good to see them in the class fighting for each mark in tests and answering the maximum questions in the class. On the other hand the guys will sit behind them and try to hide so that the teacher may not let them stand to answer the question. During any cultural or sports activity, their will always be a group that wont do anything but have their so called valuable comments to the ones busy in managing things and taking part on the same.
When we go in college, we think to be smart and know everything about life. Some take this change seriously and concentrate on their goals in life, others have a view to enjoy these years and then think about life as after that no one will be escaped with the burden of responsibilities. Girls tend to be very serious during initial days and try to have an impact on the professors. Usually these girls are boring for the ones that take the life in a much lighter way and being an average student enjoys each and every moment of that life. The best thing you must have done is to give a punch line to your college or atleast have a short name that looks funnier to be called. Then you have your college song that seniors want each one to learn. For guys they have a non veg version and for girls something very stupid to laugh about and if you don’t know the song then be ready to have your chubby cheeks to get the pain. First year is always being remembered as at this period you will get to know how you are going to cope up with both the studies and enjoyment. This is the time where guys and girls tend to get in all sorts of unwanted activities like cigarette, alcohol, etc. Some say that you need to taste all this in life, but they don’t know that to taste a thing that is harmful is never ever let you taste. It will get you used to it, May God Bless All. The next best thing that people in college wait for is GT (General Tadi) a decided holiday that can vary from half day to months based on the leader decision. Haa one more thing in that is you will always find a leader in your class that will ask you to follow whatever he says. He will be the one that has contacts to all the seniors, no interest in studies and just ask someone to have its proxy. If that guy sits with you in the class for one lecture, bet you won’t able to concentrate as he will ask you so many questions during that. Even you can find a leader among girls that will encourage not going for GT and preparing the sessionals in time. Some might even go secretly and submits the assignment to professor and behaves that they haven’t even prepared and stands with the class decision. The best place to relax in college is outside the gate on stairs and you will find some or the other person sitting at all times and that place can never look deserted from morning till evening. When you get senior you either think to leave the juniors in sympathy or want to have your revenge on them. One more thing that is common is that if you have been ragged by any senior, then he will definitely help you if you require both in terms of guiding, studies, notes and doing other stuffs, I hope you understand…
Combine study is the most common term among guys as it’s not that popular among girls as two or more than two girls can’t study seriously in a single room on the same topic, not because they don’t want to study together, but you know it won’t work out. Two reasons for that, firstly girls are jealous among fellow girls as they have a tendency to prove better then others and hence they prefer to study lonely and in secret and behaves after the paper that it was not good and get 80+ marks. I have never seen any brilliant or average girl to say the truth after coming out of the examination hall. The best dialog for them is ‘Don’t know yaar jo jo pada tha, kuch nahi aaya, bas passing marks jitney aayenge’ (I don’t know what happened, whatever I studied didn’t came, I hope I will pass this paper). Combined study among guys is very common both in school and in college and it’s really helpful for the people those haven’t opened the notes all round the year. The study usually starts after 10 with a cup of tea and snacks, then opens the last year papers or term papers and first gets through all those. Actually this actually guaranteed 30 to 40 percent of repeated questions and can guarantee you to just pass with the minimum marks. Well after a serious study for a couple of hours then next thing they do is to go out for some break to a nearby hotel at the bus or train station and have a strong tea with poha (a very common and famous item for breakfast). That’s the best place where even at 3-4 in the morning all will look as fresh as ever after having that early breakfast. Their is also a tendency to get the paper out and it happened many times in my school and college. I remember two cases one happened in class 9 where my history teacher is being called by principal and she left in the middle of the period and I was sitting at the front bench and saw some notes under the book. When I dragged that I saw that was the second term paper of ours and everyone was surrounded that and looked in surprise. I was really scared and when she came back we are all at our desk and nobody said anything. I felt really guilty about myself as History was my favourite subject and also the teacher I respect most. After the class I told everyone that I m going to tell her, some agreed on my decision and many said no, but I then went to the staff room and told her everything. She was really very angry after that, but later I guess she realised my honesty, but the thing is that I was able to see on her eyes after telling this and all guilt was gone. The second case happened in class 11 where my friends got hold of English paper and they all came to me at 9 in the night to solve the grammar as I was considered to be honest to provide the correct solution. We all sat and solved the paper for 2 hours and went to Bed. I was still not convinced and continued my normal study, but the next day when we saw the paper, we all were delighted and just saw the first question and the pen started to move on the copy like a rocket and that was the first time most of them were able to finish the paper much before the allotted timeJ
Well this continues on and on, but all these moments when you realise for sure bring smile on your face. If while reading this you can imagine your wonderful past and the stuffs you did then the motive for this story is served. In the last only want to say that life is not too short, but the moments that you can enjoy without considering anything and just enjoying is too short. So what are you thinking about just remember those little moments and put that in a safe locker in your mind and whenever you feel depressed and lonely open that locker and let the smile have to pass from your charming face. All the very Best J J J
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