Monday, 5 November 2007

Hadd Ho Gayi (That is Too Much)

This is the story of a girl which can fit best in all the roles. She is cool and she is smart, she is sweet and she is beautiful. All the good words can end but her praise never ends. You might think I am talking about someone in my dreams, well dreams are there to put in reality and it’s possible to feel what you see in your dreams. But this girl is real and lives in this world with all the happiness around her and making to feel the same for others. She is my lovely friend and the name I gave her is ‘Pyaari’. It’s a Hindi term that resembles with love, but in a casual way it can be fit in many scenarios. The reason why I gave her this name is very simple as she has all the qualities that you can think of to be in your best of the best friends. She is sweet, adorable, charming, lovely, beautiful, simple, elegant, loving, caring, responsible, honest, bright, intelligent, hard working, etc etc. well I know some might think that how can all these qualities be in a single person, but as I told if you see everything beautiful around yourself, then even the smallest of joy can bring a bigger smile on your face. But it’s a fact that she posses all these aspects in her and you can feel the same when you are around and even if not then you can cherish the moment you spent with such a wonderful person.
Now let’s start with how this relationship started. To tell you it was a bit unusual and it happens to me most of the times. I came to know her name on my birthday. My lovely team celebrated my birthday in the evening in canteen, when we all finished with that there are some cake pieces left and we took that in our cubical. There my friend got a call from her and she was teasing Pyaari that we have cake in our desk. I guess she asked in a funny manner to my friend to get some for her and after the call I did say to her to get the cake for Pyaari, but she didn’t take that. It was a lovely black forest cake and everyone liked that. So then everyday my friend used to call her or she calls to her and they talk and discuss whats happening in office and all. I also used to say something in between about her and ask my friend to introduce me. I often used to joke that she will be honoured to see me and having a friend like me. Also I used to ask her how Pyaari looks like and she never told me clearly about her, she used to say that she is very nice and don’t think anything else as she got many fans. Fans we used to refer to a persons girlfriend and boyfriend in a funny manner. So I used to tell her that if she has got lots of fans then her craze will over after seeing meJ. But finally one day when we were going to canteen, she called Pyaari to join and when she told me I was excited that finally for the girl I heard so much every day, I am gonna meet her.
Well finally we met in canteen, when I saw her, first thing came in my mind is her long hairs. I am really fascinated with girls having long hairs and take care. She was wearing salwar suit, with a small wallet and cell phone on her hand. She kept that on our table and went to get coffee and when she joined my friend introduced me to her. Since I had heard so much about her, from the beginning I was very comfortable to talk, I m not sure what she was thinking but I guess she didn’t have time to thought at that moment. We just talk casually asking the project and what she does and all. One more thing that I need to tell is when I saw her; there was something different I found in her. She has a very attractive face that can attract any person. I was really in a different world seeing her, well we used to see so many new different and beautiful faces, but she was far ahead from us. She has the face that just put an image in your heart and mind. I know when she will read this she will burst into laughter. After that we rarely get the chance to meet and I tried to see her in canteen in the evening whenever I used to go with my friend or my team.
Then one day she got the number from my friend and she called me to get some information on something and did tell her to the best of my knowledge. There after also I didn’t have much interaction with her and never dare to sms as I didn’t know what she will think of me. It was all along going well and then the meetings begin to happen gradually. I thank to the beautiful canteen for that which gave us time to relax and chat the whole days stuff. When she went to her native, she called my friend and conveyed her Hi and regards to me and that I really appreciate about her. Later time went on and our friendship was flourishing. I used to wait for her to go to canteen and sometimes I escape with my team to go along with her. She is very simple and sweet, I guess anyone can make her fool, doesn’t think too much on anything and which I often told her about this. Also I am very fond of telling people to eat well and all my best friends who do know me know that. In her early days when I met her, she was very slim and her beauty gets hidden under that. I told her so many times whenever we were in canteen to take some snacks and all. Previously she doesn’t listens but later she came to know it’s for her good health. I used to scold people in two things specially girls, first if they don’t take care of their hairs and secondly if they don’t take care of their health.
Well everything was going well and suddenly one day she called me in the night and we talked for nearly an hour, I was very happy and thought ‘wow finally she considers me as a good person ;-)’ then again the next day she called and we talked for the same time, I was really happy as I felt there is someone whom you can share the things at any time and someone is there to listen your stupid talks. I remember one Friday night where all our roomies set to watch a movie and when we started to see I got her call. I went in the kitchen so as not to disturb others and started talking. After an hour I remember my room mate came to see me and I told him that I will come in a while. Finally when the call ended and I went in the room my mates told me that the movie was over and we have now started the new one. They all were seeing me with such a suspicious eyes as though I have done something wrong. I don’t know what to say this a good news or a bad in some aspect, I got an opportunity to work at the client site for an year and I was asked to leave the next day. I was literally not happy with that as I was really enjoying those days with my friends and especially with Pyaari. I tried to postpone that for some days, but couldn’t and thought to take this opportunity as I waited this for a long time. The other regret I had was that weekend myself, Pyaari and my dear friend booked tickets for movie and that was the first time I was going with her. Well all this happened so fast that I couldn’t even said good bye to her properly.
During the initial days, I was really missing my parents and all my dear friends, but as time went on I was getting busy in my work. I was slowly loosing contacts with people and was not even cared about. Then one day I got the mail from Pyaari and I was really happy that she remembers me, she was shouting at me telling that you forgot us and all. I then replied with the entire story and from there on again we were in touch. She really showed the sign of a true friend and made me realise that distance doesn’t matter, its all the feelings in your heart that is important. In my all the mails I used to write her to eat well and I know she listened to me. She is the friend I can ask something and demands. She never showed me that I am not important to her, not because I am not close to her but that she knew that I am a good friend. Initially we had a communication via mails and we used to send mails daily of whats happening around. Also I used to talk with my friend and get the latest information about her. Now I can say that she is one of my lovely and dear friends or to say more than a friend and I respect her deep from my heart. I never found any bad things about her. She is a perfect lady in my eyes and the proof of that is I am her friendJ. I forgot to mention why I have chosen the title of this story as ‘Hadd Ho Gayi’. Basically that’s a Hindi phrase meaning ‘too much’. She uses this phrase quite often when we talk on phone and the reason behind that I always used to praise myself on all the things and the people used to get fed up and say something like that. When I found her saying that so many times, I used to knowingly praise myself and then say ‘now you will say your favourite wordJ’. Hence I told her that when I am going to write a story about you, I will definitely put this as the title.
Whatever I wrote about her and the time I spent with her will always remind me of those wonderful days. Even though we are far, but we are in constant touch via mails and phone. She is one of the motivator that encouraged me to write like this and when I started I told myself that I will write about all my great friends which can’t be valued or compared with the costliest jewels in the world. But still I say that she is the Kohinoor for us and we are glad and honoured to have a partner like her. I don’t know but I am running short of words to describe her beauty, personality but every time her name comes a smile comes on the face of all that knows her. I am sure she will achieve everything in life what she is asked for and will deserve the best of the things she won’t have dreamt of. At this time I can only pray to GOD that never ever she will have a feeling of sadness and all the happiness will circle around her all the time. People say a friend in need is a friend indeed and I really want to prove that true for her that whenever there is something that you need to share and that can bring you peace, you can always find me behind. I may not walk along with you the entire life, but can walk infront of you to have all the stones that anyhow target on you. All this seems to be philosophical, but if you have a friend like you then this will be what you feel.
I am not gonna end this story as she is still my the most loving friend and I pray for her all day n night and I don’t know if I can ever see her in future. But I want her to think that I am a true friend of her and can do anything to make her happy. Currently we are chatting too much on mails and phone and she wants me to write another story that I will try to write. But Pyaari is a friend to me missed and you have a feeling of something empty in your life and if that happens to you because of someone or someone feels the same because of you then it’s the ultimate bond that is being tied and should be respected.
All the Best…

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