Friend
‘A friend in need is a friend indeed’
Hi Guys,
To start writing on this topic, I would first thank all the ones who considered me as there friend. Being nothing infront of them, the way they considered me and stand right with me in times of need. Thank you all for being there with me at all times and alwaysJ
It really a very hard topic when comes in terms of writing and expressing the relationship as a friend. But the fact is it’s the most beautiful relationship (of course the relationship with your parents will always remain at top in any situation) a person can have. If you have a single person being a guy or a girl, no matter to be called as a true friend, then you don’t have to worry and you can assure to share all your secrets and worst with him/her. But there is always a thin line between a friend, best friend and a true friend. You people must be thinking, what is the difference between a best friend and a true friend. Well the best example which I can give you is when you face any problem, the best friend will tell you the solution for it so as to overcome with your hard time, a true friend on the other hand gets along with you and tries to get you out from the situation considering this as his problem. Hence you might have many friends that you can call as your best friends, but to find a true friend is really difficult and if you have one, then you are one of the luckiest people in this world. I think most of you agree on the fact that we might not make friends only by the looks, and if you are agreed with the fact then you are among some intelligent people. Looks matter no doubt, but not the primary factor as look without anything else is good for nothing and that person cannot be put among your eyes as friend. Each person has some or the other qualities as no one are perfect, but still there are some differences that makes group of people and that’s how it is. The question that amazes me is “What you look in a friend?” The answer of this can’t be generalized as each one is having a different perspective of looking things and everyone has its own priorities and standards to judge. Some might look the dressing first whereas others look the behaviour and the way a person talks with other. I have been in touch with so many people both guys and girls and still I don’t have a firm answer to say what impresses me and I can go along with that person so as to call as my friend. Also the most important factor that I understand is that you have a certain age group where you can make friends and that friendship promises to be for life long. That doesn’t means that friendship made at a professional and later ages will not go for long, but still that’s very rare. The best and long lasting friendship that you can hear from people are from there school days and that’s more than 90%, you will find the people saying about there friendship from school days.
Now what a friend is supposed to do for you or what you expects from a friend. The universal fact is that all the relationships that a person holds have some intentions. A relation without an intention cannot exist. Many people deny this fact, but that’s not at all true. When you become younger, you expect your parents to get all the comforts for you, when you become adult and get married, you expect your life partner to be trustworthy. And when you become old, you expect your children’s to take care of you. So how can a friendship survive without intention? Well I put that as expectation as it doesn’t sounds that rude. So we all have certain expectations with others and others might have with us. A friend who stands to your expectations can be said as your best/true friend. For me a true friend is one who understands me more than myself and always keeps checking that whatever I am doing is good for all. Also not only he is a friend of me, but taking care of my near and dear ones (my family). I am really proud to say that I have couple of true friends and far better than me and really it’s a feeling of proud to associate myself with them. The best way to judge a person on the first go is by his face. Everyone likes to have a friend charming, loving, cool, caring and trustworthy. Well the face look won’t show you all, but a quite face with a decent smile, good courtesy and giving you attention and respect can be the one you want to have as a friend. The other qualities of the friend can be found later, but the first thing that a girl should care of is to keep her dignity and courtesy first and not to get excited. Girls who are energetic and talkative (Well all girls are talkativeJ) and the one who can’t keep her excitement can show a different picture towards guy and they might be gonna thinking in a different way. Also the worst problem that no one should ever get into any relation is ‘Attitude’. A person having an attitude problem can never be a good friend and also can’t make any friends that he/she can call as there best friends. Also there is a difference between ‘pride’ and ‘proud’. A person should always be proud to be as a best friend rather than pride, as it will spoil your friendship in future for sure. Also being a best friend, you should give respect to your best mate’s friend. And finally its all about the taste and likes and dislikes that can be a factor for you to choose a friend. Well there’s a lot and lots to tell about friendship, but for me you should respect this relationship and always tries to come upto the expectations of your friend.
‘A friend in need is a friend indeed’
Hi Guys,
To start writing on this topic, I would first thank all the ones who considered me as there friend. Being nothing infront of them, the way they considered me and stand right with me in times of need. Thank you all for being there with me at all times and alwaysJ
It really a very hard topic when comes in terms of writing and expressing the relationship as a friend. But the fact is it’s the most beautiful relationship (of course the relationship with your parents will always remain at top in any situation) a person can have. If you have a single person being a guy or a girl, no matter to be called as a true friend, then you don’t have to worry and you can assure to share all your secrets and worst with him/her. But there is always a thin line between a friend, best friend and a true friend. You people must be thinking, what is the difference between a best friend and a true friend. Well the best example which I can give you is when you face any problem, the best friend will tell you the solution for it so as to overcome with your hard time, a true friend on the other hand gets along with you and tries to get you out from the situation considering this as his problem. Hence you might have many friends that you can call as your best friends, but to find a true friend is really difficult and if you have one, then you are one of the luckiest people in this world. I think most of you agree on the fact that we might not make friends only by the looks, and if you are agreed with the fact then you are among some intelligent people. Looks matter no doubt, but not the primary factor as look without anything else is good for nothing and that person cannot be put among your eyes as friend. Each person has some or the other qualities as no one are perfect, but still there are some differences that makes group of people and that’s how it is. The question that amazes me is “What you look in a friend?” The answer of this can’t be generalized as each one is having a different perspective of looking things and everyone has its own priorities and standards to judge. Some might look the dressing first whereas others look the behaviour and the way a person talks with other. I have been in touch with so many people both guys and girls and still I don’t have a firm answer to say what impresses me and I can go along with that person so as to call as my friend. Also the most important factor that I understand is that you have a certain age group where you can make friends and that friendship promises to be for life long. That doesn’t means that friendship made at a professional and later ages will not go for long, but still that’s very rare. The best and long lasting friendship that you can hear from people are from there school days and that’s more than 90%, you will find the people saying about there friendship from school days.
Now what a friend is supposed to do for you or what you expects from a friend. The universal fact is that all the relationships that a person holds have some intentions. A relation without an intention cannot exist. Many people deny this fact, but that’s not at all true. When you become younger, you expect your parents to get all the comforts for you, when you become adult and get married, you expect your life partner to be trustworthy. And when you become old, you expect your children’s to take care of you. So how can a friendship survive without intention? Well I put that as expectation as it doesn’t sounds that rude. So we all have certain expectations with others and others might have with us. A friend who stands to your expectations can be said as your best/true friend. For me a true friend is one who understands me more than myself and always keeps checking that whatever I am doing is good for all. Also not only he is a friend of me, but taking care of my near and dear ones (my family). I am really proud to say that I have couple of true friends and far better than me and really it’s a feeling of proud to associate myself with them. The best way to judge a person on the first go is by his face. Everyone likes to have a friend charming, loving, cool, caring and trustworthy. Well the face look won’t show you all, but a quite face with a decent smile, good courtesy and giving you attention and respect can be the one you want to have as a friend. The other qualities of the friend can be found later, but the first thing that a girl should care of is to keep her dignity and courtesy first and not to get excited. Girls who are energetic and talkative (Well all girls are talkativeJ) and the one who can’t keep her excitement can show a different picture towards guy and they might be gonna thinking in a different way. Also the worst problem that no one should ever get into any relation is ‘Attitude’. A person having an attitude problem can never be a good friend and also can’t make any friends that he/she can call as there best friends. Also there is a difference between ‘pride’ and ‘proud’. A person should always be proud to be as a best friend rather than pride, as it will spoil your friendship in future for sure. Also being a best friend, you should give respect to your best mate’s friend. And finally its all about the taste and likes and dislikes that can be a factor for you to choose a friend. Well there’s a lot and lots to tell about friendship, but for me you should respect this relationship and always tries to come upto the expectations of your friend.
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