Have you felt anytime that you are lonely? The obvious answer to this question is sure 'YES'. Then the next obvious question is why people feel sometime lonely and deserted. Well thats i think human tendency and each and everyone regardless of the behaviour feels one day lonely and alone. Now why i am writing on this topic is because i used to feel lonely most of the times. Its not because i dont have any friends, or nobody cares for me and thinks i am there in among them. But i think its all because of expectation............... This expectation is a word that kills everyone one or the other day. Well i don't take this topic as i might write on this sometime in future. So what might be the possible causes when a person feels lonely, sad, helpless, demotivated? Well the most obvious answer is that the person needs to prove among his group and if he finds that you are nothing or the group doesnt care about him. Well he might be wrong in the way to understand things, but this may lead to an obvious change in the behaviour of the person. He then might treat you very respectfully and the jokes and fun he makes when all are together, you may see him with a quite smile trying to show that he is also enjoying, but the reality is that this is hurting him. The best thing to avoid such scenario is to divert your concentration into some other activities, such as games, some hobby that you like. Why i didnt say in work is because work will further spoil him and he may then cut off from his group. The second cause might be because of not able to convince or find your love. I think this is the most hurting scenario as the person either behave in a very rude way or will be quite. Both the condition will break the self confidence and interally kills the person with unnecessary sorrow. People take this relationship very seriously and it starts from friendship and then to love. The person whether a guy or a girl, first understands and reads the mind of others and then decide to carry on with the relationship or not. If any of the party is not interested or have any other reason, then the other person should restrict himself. Well then you might be thinking that love dont see all this, it just happens...... Well then if thats the case then be ready to cry if unfortunately something worst happens. Its very harsh to say, but life is based on practicality and the decision has to come with the acceptence of mind and brain.
Now if you feel lonely, cant you have a single person to remember that will make you happy and cheerful, if your answer is 'NO' then i need to recall your memory and ask you people.... cant your parents will make you happy? Are they havent given you enough love and affection so that when you feel down, there face will keep you up. I remember in the movie K3G (Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham) when SK (Shahrukh Khan) says that 'If anytime you feel lonely and pressurized, and sees no sign of hope and all in this world come to conquer you, close your eyes and remember your Mama and Papa then all the things will become easy and you will get the courage to do what you didnt have expected yourself to do, and you will then see that the success will be at your feet'. I remember these lines and if you really mean it then in this world you dont need anyone not even a friend, thats a very true fact. I am not commenting on the relationship of friendship as i consider this to be the next best relationship after your parents. And also if you have any friend that is very close to you and understads you then you are one of the luckiest guy in this beautiful world....................................
World is really great and you make it worth by nurishing it by giving happiness and pleasure to the people around you regardless they think you as something or not. Well now i am feeling a bit relieved after writing this. Hope you have enjoyed...............................All the Best
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